Friday, March 28, 2008

ADAM KHOO WORKSHOP !

My Tap finally stopped flowing .
and it all started on day 2 of the workshop when Freddy told us to imagine .

You are in a dark room . There was nothing around , nobody around . You felt lonely . Suddenly , you saw a door at one corner . Slowly , you walk towards it and turn the knob . In front of you , you see a someone sitting there , its your mother which looked 20 years older than she is now . She looked tired , old and weak ....

if im not wrong , it went this way on and on with both parents in it and imagine they are in 2 boxes ( coffin CHOY ! ) If that really happened , i would feel extremely sad to the extent where i would even regret . Perhaps because i have not done much for them and they did so much for me , so much that i would never expect .

like what Mr Freddy said ,
your parents would sacrifce for you and all they want in return is to see us happy and lead a relax life . If our parents are not well educated and is having a tough job as a career now , they would just want to see us do much better than them so that we would not have to get a job like them .
For mothers , they would tend to buy clothes for her children and things that they want then buying clothes and bags for herself which is what a women normally loves to do . They will lose their beauty as they will have marks on their stomach when they give birth to us .
For Dads , they will work from morning to late at night to provide a living for our family , our breadwinner .

To me , i would forever be proud of my parents .
they did everything just for us but i did not realise until now .

they will try to give me and my siblings what we want .
I would always go out with friends when i have free time and would not stay at home for long to accompany them except for weekends .
I would normally come home say " hi " and "goodnights " because i would just come back and switch on my computer .

Now that i understand , i will try to spend more time with them ..

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Before all this , we watched a video on how one person persevered and treasued her life although her face was badly burned and melted which made a change in her life . If it was me , i wouldnt be able to survive with such a look .
In the video , she even hugged the mum of the person who cause this and told her " its alright ". It is hard indeed for on person to accept the fact , and forgive and continue her life happily to complete the things that she want to do .
I will never be able to accept it if it happens to me .

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DAY 3 TODAY
my eyes are terribly red .
i shall only talk about the last session , closing ceremony .

i cried . i smiled . i sang
settled down at 7pm and then we saw parents all turning up for the session
my mum was at home and she did nto turn up .

the speaking up session started only a 8.30pm
and there were quite a few people jumping out and tried to snatch to speak up first
and issac from 4c got it . he cried and i felt touched .
many spoke up even my cousin Xuan yu and i think i see a change in him ;D
i cried although i tried to control my tears hoping it wouldnt flow out but it did .
thanks for the comfort and hugs of my friends like peiwen yanni cindy chrismin , etc
even towrong's pat on the back .

sang the song HOLD ON TOGETHER before we left
Chrismin's mother joined in and sang with us together . how sweet of her and cute ;D
Lovely .
Even the four kings in our class joined in near the end of the song
held hands and i think they cired cause their eyes were red .

my aunt send me home just now and i think she cried abit too .


NOW , i shall say MUM DAD ,
I LOVE YOU !
AWESOME !~

okay there will be another post tmr .. a happy post ;D today shall be a sad one .
People out there , treasure ur love ones b4 u regret .

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